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It’s one of the most shocking passages in the Old Testament. God had just called Moses to lead the people of Israel out of slavery—and then in Exodus 4:24, we read:
“At a lodging place on the way, the Lord met Moses and was about to kill him.”
(Exodus 4:24, NIV)
Wait… what?
God almost killed Moses? The very man He had just chosen to confront Pharaoh?
Yes. And the reason is sobering:
Moses was preparing to carry out God’s mission while ignoring God’s covenant.
He hadn’t circumcised his son—something God clearly commanded in Genesis 17 as a sign of His covenant. Whether it was due to fear, cultural compromise, or simple neglect, Moses had not obeyed. And before he could lead others, God met him on the way and said, “Not like this.”
This moment in scripture isn’t random—it’s deeply personal.
God wasn’t being cruel. He was being holy. He was saying:
You cannot carry My mission while living in quiet compromise.
Before Moses could confront Pharaoh, God had to confront Moses.
Before Moses could lead God’s people into freedom, God had to make sure Moses wasn’t still entangled in disobedience at home.
And if we’re honest, we’ve all been there.
We’ve all felt the pull to press forward while ignoring something the Holy Spirit keeps highlighting.
We’ve all made excuses like, “I’ll deal with that later,” or, “It’s not that big of a deal.”
But God’s mercy often comes in the form of a holy interruption.
If you’ve used the Happy Kid Toolkit, you already know it’s designed to help families take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It teaches emotional regulation, repentance, healthy communication, and self-awareness in conflict.
But here’s the thing no mat or method can do for you:
The most powerful part of the Toolkit isn’t the Unhappy Kid Triangle or the role cards or even the breakthrough phrases.
It’s the modeling.
It’s you—choosing to live what you teach.
Imagine this:
You’re sitting on the floor with your child, walking through a meltdown.
You gently help them identify their feelings, take a deep breath, and own their behavior.
But ten minutes later, they overhear you snapping at your spouse, muttering under your breath, or scrolling your phone to escape your own emotions.
Kids may listen to what we say. But they mirror what we live.
The Happy Kid Toolkit is not just about helping your kids become emotionally responsible.
It’s about creating a home culture where integrity is normal.
Where repentance is modeled.
Where it’s safe to fail—but it’s also expected that we own it.
So yes, the Toolkit is for them…
But it has to start with you.
Because obedience doesn’t begin on a mat.
It begins in the heart of the one leading the way.
Modern-Day Compromises We Downplay or Justify
You may not be skipping circumcision like Moses—but compromise is still real.
And today, it’s easier than ever to justify. Let’s make this practical:
💡 Obedience in parenting means showing up for the hard, holy heart-work—even when it’s uncomfortable.
💡 Obedience in marriage means doing the brave, quiet work of truth, forgiveness, and humility.
💡 What we excuse in private eventually erodes what we carry in public.
💡 Spiritual authority flows from personal integrity, not performance.
Here’s what we learn from Exodus 4:
God doesn’t confront us to condemn us.
He confronts us to realign us. To protect us. To purify the mission He’s entrusted to us.
“You can’t teach what you don’t live.
You can’t walk others into freedom while still chained to compromise.
Obedience isn’t legalism—it’s love in action.”
Use these questions to invite the Holy Spirit to search your heart today:
Friend, God doesn’t need your perfection—but He does want your surrender.
This post is based on Episode 82 of The Happy Family Coach Podcast:
👉 You Can’t Teach What You Don’t Live: Why Obedience Starts at Home
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In the episode, I share:
It’s a powerful companion to this blog—and I pray it brings both conviction and comfort.
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